“That’s the difference between me and you. You wanna lose small, I wanna win big.” So said Harvey Specter in Suits. In the real world, many disputes are not worth fighting, should be settled and that decision, to settle or fight, requires insight, maturity and wisdom. Having decided to settle though, and perhaps having disappointed Harvey Specter by deciding to lose small, it is vital to see the matter through with the same diligence that would have been applied to a fight to the death. It is easy to stop concentrating on the settlement and find suddenly that you have lost big.